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You're unplugging series actually inspired me to take a break from writing here, which I've never done before. I love writing here, but wanted to give myself a little breathing room to regroup and refocus (and catch up on so many posts that I've been missing). So thank you for that 😊

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yes! So glad you're taking time off. Enjoy!

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Aug 1Liked by Chris Anselmo

Solid points again. I can relate to having to be doing something, because in my view, this is part of human nature. But yes, we can tune in to something fun around what we usually do instead.

Thank you, and it’s all gone in my toolkit!

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Thanks Adam!

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Aug 1Liked by Chris Anselmo

Excellent tips. Especially taking a couple laps around the outside when no answers are forthcoming.

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Thanks Teyani!

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Aug 1Liked by Chris Anselmo

I know that resort! :) Love it.

Great tips, Chris. I'm going to be referring to both Parts 1 & 2 in the not-too-distant future when I come up for air and unplug in Sept for my bday. Will definitely be checking back on these posts to give myself reminders.

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Happy early birthday Mike! I'm a September birthday too.

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Jul 31Liked by Chris Anselmo

Loved this! Before vacation earlier this month, I was so plugged in I felt almost annoyed at the prospect of detaching. I feared losing momentum. But once away, like always, a calm washes over me and everything I normally think or worry about feels so insignificant. Family is everything, to me anyway, and I love those times of disconnecting from the world. It’s such a great way to put everything in perspective. I love that you got your book idea while detaching from habitual projects. It’s so cool how removing ourselves from the daily grind creates space for meaningful ideas to come through.

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Thanks Suzanne! I really appreciate your comment. Glad you had a chance to recharge your batteries. And you're right - I'm finding that resting is the most productive thing we can do! It's so counterintuitive but it works.

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I took my summer vacation last week in Palm Springs. It was too hot to hold a book and read. So I listened to the Murdaugh Murders podcast I started there in April, set a timer in case and nap struck and just listened. Not just to the podcast, but to the music playing by the pool (the noise cancelling on my AirPods ain't that great), the chatter of the other morons who also enjoy 115 degree vacays and waited for a breeze. There were some delightful breezes. I used to never take vacations because HOW CAN I SPEND THAT MONEY?!!? WHAT IF I NEED IT LATER?!!? So I tricked myself by using points, and staying at a lovely-but-cheap place. I never leave with a regret. We underestimate the value of taking a break and the rejuvenation it brings. Thanks for reminding us, Chris. xo

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Thanks Sandra! You are one of the bravest souls I know. 115!!! I wither at about 90 degrees.

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But it’s a dry heat, Chris. 😉 xo

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I can only function between 75-85 degrees. Otherwise I'm way too cold or I melt. :)

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For the most part, I’m right there with you, Chris. But there is something magical about Palm Springs. I don’t know what it is. It’s hot, but oddly tolerable. Maybe because it’s not real life. I’m just sitting by a pool I won’t get in (I remember Norovirus, do you?), lying on a chaise longue under an umbrella and SPF 50, donning a hat, sipping water, electrolytes waiting in the mini-fridge, and something about that makes it all so pleasant. xo

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There was a norovirus outbreak at BC when I was in grad school. Started at the Chipotle nearby. I was there the day before it started. Kept waiting for the onslaught of awfulness but thankfully it never happened.

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I’m really not a germaphobe, just determined not to get certain things. Glad it bypassed you! xo

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