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Nov 4, 2023·edited Nov 4, 2023Pinned

Re: growing from a difficult experience:

One example that comes to mind is six years ago when I left my job for health reasons. It was an incredibly stressful time that led to physical issues. I was one year out of business school, unemployed, and didn't know what came next. I wasn't sure if anyone would hire me since I voluntarily left a good job. How would I explain the gap in my resume?

Over the next six months, I slowly pieced my career back together. I took any consulting work I could find. I networked. I took part in numerous informational interviews. One connection led to another, which led to attending a conference, which led to finding my next job. It was a difficult time, but I am proud of how I persevered.

This experience gave me the confidence to leave my job this year to pursue writing full-time. I knew that if it didn't work out, I could bounce back, because I had done it before. Thankfully, the circumstances this time were much more positive and I have more going for me.

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Having read about your business school journey recently—where you alluded to your NYC internship—it was a treat to hear more about your summer in New York!

I'm writing this comment from the comfort of my couch, under a blanket with a cup of tea nearby, but I swear I agree with you about the importance of leaving your comfort zone. 😂

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You can always take the blanket with you as you step out of your comfort zone!

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And tea too

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Definitely gonna Linus my way through #adulting

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Thank you for another great post, Chris. '...beyond the comfort zone' - this part really spoke to me.

Actually, it all really spoke to me - you've woven exactly the right things together in this post to make me reflect on how life's feeling right now for me. Thank you.

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Thanks Rebecca :)

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Fifteen years ago my 18 year old son died. Many dreams died along with him. I didn’t know if I could survive this, but here I am leading grief recovery groups and participating in support groups for grieving parents. I would not have asked for this, but because of my loss I have entre to speak to other hurting people with understanding. We can’t always control what happens to us but we always control what we do with it.

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John, I'm so sorry about your son. Although I have only known you for a little while, I have seen the impact you've had on so many. I appreciate all that you've done for others who are grieving.

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Thanks ...we are all living out of our painful experiences and into bringing hope to others. You do this very well.

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Thanks, John.

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