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Feb 16Liked by Chris Anselmo

It was such a pleasure to read about Ronnie’s life and how this special relationship helped shape the wonderful person you are today. Thank you for sharing your uncle with us this week, Chris. I’m so deeply sorry about his passing. ❤️

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Thanks Maddie 🙏

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I am so sorry for your loss, Chris. My sincerest condolences to you, yours and his loved ones. There are certain people who are life-changing, blood or otherwise, and we are so lucky to have them. Aside from my Papa, my (great) Aunt Marion was that angel for me. She passed away of ovarian cancer on my first day of film school, just about a year after my grandfather. In some ways, I see Uncle Ronnie joining Laurie on that day as poetic. That doesn't make it any less hard for those who loved them, of course, but isn't it also an example of their connection? That thread the weaves through all of us. Thank you so much for introducing us to such a wonderful man and his family, Chris. You really showed us who he is. (Present tense intended.) xo

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Thank you 🙏. I agree, it is strangely comforting in a way that they passed on the same day.

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So sorry for your loss and Ronnie's family's loss, Chris. Thank you for sharing a little part of him here with us and sharing your experiences with him.

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Thanks Jackie

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Feb 15·edited Feb 15Liked by Chris Anselmo

This was so beautifully written, Chris. I'm so sorry for the pain you and your family are experiencing. It's wonderful to read how much Ronnie was a guide in your life and I guarantee, through your writing, that you were able to do the same for him. Sending you love as you grieve a tremendous loss.

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Thanks Katie 🙏

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What a sweet tribute and how fortunate to have him and his laughter imprinted in your life and memory.

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Thank you 🙏

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Feb 15Liked by Chris Anselmo

Chris, your tribute to Uncle Ronnie is incredibly touching. It's a beautiful thing how we connect with others through the shared experiences of family. My uncle Ronnie passed and his wife's name is Linda. Reading felt like a hello from the other side. Thank you!

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Thanks Kelly 🙏.

Wow, what a coincidence that is!

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Feb 16Liked by Chris Anselmo

Totally. I just had more today with some other friends. It must be one of those weeks! I hope you’re having a great week!

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Thanks! You too. And yes, these coincidences always seem to happen in bunches.

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So awesome. I know. Thanks for recognizing that. It’s bunching!

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Feb 14Liked by Chris Anselmo

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful, loving tribute, Chris. There's something comforting in sharing how wonderful a person has been, and what they've met for you, to those that haven't met them. I feel like I know Ronnie and I'm glad you have so many fond memories.

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Thanks Leanne 🙏

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A fitting tribute for a good person. Uncle Ronnie would've loved this. Sorry for your loss, Chris.

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Thanks Robert 🙏

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Feb 14Liked by Chris Anselmo

I enjoyed reading this and indeed what a beautiful tribute to your uncle. He was the ultimate example of resilience. Much love to you and your family.

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Thanks Wen 🙏

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Feb 14Liked by Chris Anselmo

What a great essay. Thank you, and may his memory, and Laurie's, be a blessing.

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Thanks Anna 🙏

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Feb 14Liked by Chris Anselmo

Your uncle Ronnie sounds wonderful Chris. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Thanks Vivienne 🙏

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What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful man. I’m so sorry for your loss.

I’m glad you had a giant like Uncle Ronnie to help guide and support your life.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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Thank you Jackie, I appreciate it 🙏

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Feb 14Liked by Chris Anselmo

Thanks for sharing your Uncle Ronnie with us. I expect there were some tears as you composed this reflection. He sounds like a very special presence in your life. I'm inspired that through his pain he continued to love and reach out. God bless.

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Thanks John 🙏, and yes there was!

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My heartfelt condolences, Chris. A beautiful tribute piece filled with love.

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Thanks Victoria 🙏

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