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Christopher, you’re a phenomenal writer. I feel lucky to have stumbled upon your Substack! Very much looking forward to hearing more from you as I navigate my own bouts with our mutual friend adversity. ☺️

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Hi Maddie! Thank you so much for the kind words. I just started reading yours and you are a wonderful writer too. I agree - it seems we have a lot in common!

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Hi there! I have to say, what a wonderful post! I also have a chronic condition - it’s called VACTERL and it’s even on the NORD website! ( lucky me 🙄)

My condition has been around since I was born and I can relate so much to what you wrote about your condition - like pretending it doesn’t exist.

I look forward to reading more of your posts!

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Thanks Melissa!

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Such a moving and informative introduction to your story Chris 💛

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Aw, thanks Jane!

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Just found you Mika's chat and the knowledge that you wrote on Imposter Syndrome (will look for that one next!). I am so moved by your writing, both style and content. As a hospital chaplain, I work with people with initial diagnoses and know that your story will resonate with so many. Looking forward to reading more.

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Thanks Christine! Just subscribed to yours - I like your writing as well.

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What a courageous and beautiful essay. I'm touched and encouraged by your honesty and your desire to share your story with others!

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Thank you Serena!

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Hi Chris! Found you thanks to Sarah Fay's Notes thread. Love how you came to decide on the name for your Substack and the meaning behind it!

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Thank you! I'm so happy for that thread. I only barely scratched the surface before it crashed my web browser. I appreciate you subscribing and look forward to reading/following your site.

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Yes, that thread was a beast to get through! My browser definitely struggled too. But happy to have connected. ☺️

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Same!

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Hey Chris! When I read this, it was like reading my own book! I made a lot of the same missteps and realizations along the way. Even our site names are similar LOL. I chose the positive perspective because that's how I feel I always portray myself. Glad we connected.

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Just found this (and subscribed) thanks to your comment about subscribing to my “Changing Lives” newsletter https://wendigordon.substack.com. I also restacked it to help others find it!

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Thanks Wendi! Really appreciate it.

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Great intro to your story and your newsletter.

Love the name you came up with. I too did the face palm thing thinking ‘eureka!’ Only to realize the next day my brilliant name idea was not so great. Landing on a good one feels like such a win!

Good luck on your journey. I look forward to reading along.

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Thanks Kim! Just subscribed to yours.

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You're off to a great start. I look forward to more. Adversity is our common companion in life, and I like the approach you have stated.

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Thanks John!

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What a courageous and beautiful essay. I'm touched and encouraged by your honesty and your desire to share your story with others!

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Wow, Chris. Thanks for this website and project. Made my day! I am in an adult long term care facility due to my disability. Looking forward to some fun. Adversity eat shit and die.

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I'm so happy to have found you here. Reading your opener I could've replaced your diagnosis with mine and mirrored almost everything else to a tee. I just saw a post today by one of my favorite poets Andrea Gibson @thingsthatdontsuck, who compared their pain to a spider. "All of my pain is a spider I've learned not crush with the heel of my shoe but to guide with the page of a journal into an empty glass -asking questions about its life, its purpose, as I walk careful out to the garden and rest it down on the earth. My pain, how happy it is to leave me whenever I treat it kind."

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Hi Chris, nice to learn more about you. Love the intro and the direction of your newsletter.

Having the energy of a tranquilized snail was hilarious, but so relatable.

Looking forward to the ride.

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Hi, Christopher. Just received your newsletter via "The Sample." Thanks for sharing about yourself and your project here. Great anecdote about how you named this "Hello, Adversity."

We are peers; I too am a 2008 college graduate ("Hello, Recession," we might say) and also experienced a challenging and adverse Winter 2013 which I am continuing to process and make meaning of through my own writing projects.

I look forward to reading more!

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Hi Rian, nice to meet you! Glad that you found me via The Sample. I wasn't sure what to expect from submitting my newsletter there. Figured if I got one sign-up that would be a success. So I have already succeeded! I just signed up for your Substack and look forward to following your journey.

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Happy to make your acquaintance. To me the best part of Substack has been discovering other writers and discovering the random shared interests / life experiences - which is exactly what happened to me reading your bio.

Cheers! Looking forward to more of your words.

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